Silence

I think the first virtue is to restrain the tongue; he approaches nearest to God who knows how to be silent, even though he is in the right.

Cato the Elder Roman orator & politician (234 BC - 149 BC)

I first found this quote in my Charming sister and friend's blog. From that day, I have been hanging on to this quote. I was labelled stupid, coward and many things when I am silent in many situations. Sometimes I feel it is wise for me to be quiet, when explaining and arguing is not worth the effort.

I love this one. It is very powerful. Silence does not necessarily mean defeated.