Negative Energy

Rindu adalah keindahan.

Rindu itu lumrah.

Penantian itu suatu penyiksaan dan merindu itu adalah penyiksaan nan indah.

I found these phrases in some of the malay novels I've been reading.

In a Malay version of "Laa Tahzan", a book written in Arabic, I can hereby conclude:

Termasuk kebahagiaan seorang muslim adalah jauh dari ratapan dan ungkapan kerinduan, kerana ini adalah antara penyebab kegelisahan hati.

So you see, missing someone can be a negative energy to you. I believe it is okay to miss someone - lover, friend, sibling, parent - but do not overdo it. It will lose its sweetness and may lead to pain and sufferings.

Remember, Love is gentle and kind.